The Great Battle

Have you ever had this great battle take place in your life. One side says this thing isn't a big deal. The other side says "really?!". One side says it is deserved, even earned. The other side says "really?!". One side says this makes you happy, go enjoy. The other side says "really?!". One side says others enjoy this as well so help them have a fun time too. The other side says "REALLY?!". Why oh why can't I make up my mind!?