So I noticed after rereading the previous post that there is a bit I left out. I did that for the sheer time factor of typing. Oh well...
So to recap Thursday: horrible visit with the eye doc followed by my overspending at Tanger. What I mean by overspending was that I literally cut into our emergency fund. Our emergency fund was slim to begin with. Right now, I'm really regretting those purchases (any one say buyer's remorse??) because...
Here comes this story:
So Friday was all good and great until bedtime. We went to game night at church, the kids were relatively good, and we all ate yummy pizza and cookies. We get home late and I'm trying to rush the kids to bed because we need to get up in the morning to go get Gabe's glasses (which again, looking back, I should have done that after his appointment on Thursday) as he HAS to have them for his pre-op appointment on the 11th. I'm trying to listen to Gabe getting ready for bed while Hope and I are doing our thing. I never heard the water come on in the bathroom...um, you can't brush your teeth the right way without water (and Gabe is notorious for not brushing right). So I question him on this. He says he did it right so I beckon him over to do what all moms do by checking him mouth (stinky breath=no brush, dry mouth=no water). As I'm looking at his mouth, I see that there is something wrong with the gum over is left eye-tooth. I lift his lip up only to reveal the biggest, nastiest, make-you-want-to-lose-your-lunch, white abscess on his gum that I've ever seen in my life. My son is eight, his mouth is not big. That thing looked like someone took a pea and shoved it under the flesh of his gum. I'm sorry, he WILL not go to bed with that thing. Did he ever say anything about this....no. Sometimes his communication skills make me want to cry...buckets.... So I make him come with me to the bathroom where the light is best and I try to sneak the needle I'm about to use on this growth on him without him seeing. I mean, come on, the fight over eye drops....and I want to stab this thing...??? Yeah, not gonna win that battle right? Wrong. He catches sight of this needle as I approach his mouth. He backs up fast but I use my most pleading voice to tell him I REALLY need to do this and that it will feel soooo much better. He doesn't like the idea but he lets me do it. I tried to do it fast but the gum was so tight that is took a little more effort. He stood there like a champ. He didn't get too cranky over it until I was almost done getting it as empty as I could. I asked him "how's that?" and he responded with the slight tone of contentment that it was "much better." And he smiled. So before I went to bed I called the dentist so their machine could tell me when they opened and wouldn't you know that you can leave a message!! So I pleaded our case to them on the machine and begged them to call me in the morning. 15 minutes after they opened on Saturday, they called to tell me to come in when I could and they would work us in. After really only an hour of waiting, although with two kids it felt much longer, we were seen. They took a x-ray that showed his baby tooth has a really long root and that they need to pull it so the permanent tooth can come down. I had already informed them of Gabe's autism. They decided that since he needed it pulled and that they didn't want him to become afraid of the dentist, they would refer us to a pediatric dentist where they could knock him out for the procedure. Sweet. So out the door we go with a prescription for antibiotic, a copy of the x-ray, and a referral to another dentist. I don't even want to know how much I'm going to have to pay out of pocket for this but in the long run... So now we are off to buy glasses. We get there, pick out the only frames Gabe and I can compromise on (I'm sorry but no Gabe, you can NOT have pink or purple glasses), and buy them. As the lady brings us our change (of course from our emergency fund because I don't have an envelope for "glasses for Gabe"), she says "they should be in by May 14th." Ummm, reference the beginning of this story where he HAS to have these glasses by Monday the 11th. After very little reassurance from the lady that they could be in by then, I decide to risk it with every intention of calling the doc's office and seeing if we can bump back his pre-op appointment to later in the week. I really can't afford to get glasses anywhere else. Great. If we had gone straight to the store to buy glasses after his first appointment, this might not have been an issue because I asked about the lab for the glasses and they aren't open on the weekends. That means I wasted two perfectly good business days by waiting. Only good news is that apparently the store "has been a little slow" and we have a little bit better chance of getting them by Friday (Gabe's appointment is at 8:00 a.m. on Monday the 11th and with the lab closed on the weekends...) Oh and we filled that prescription for antibiotic only to find that it was for pills and not a liquid... Gabe has never swallowed a pill in his life. I'll save the story of Gabe's first pill experience for another blog. It was fun let me tell you.
So here I sit praying Gabe can be seen by the dentist tomorrow and that the doc can move his pre-op appointment, Lee's vet appointment to get him diagnosed is Tuesday morning, start calling and harassing the eyeglass store starting Wednesday, pray the glasses are in by Friday, next week will be his pre-op appointment, and that Friday will be the surgery. And all of that is without the panic that our emergency fund is now at only $100. Which will most likely have to go 100% to the pediatric dentist tomorrow.
I need a hug.